why no kate or karen :)
"thats impressive. being in the US for 5 yrs, you still chose to marry an Indian girl" - invariably everyone told me this back home. and I seriously didn't know whether to cry or laugh. thanks to our stupid Indian movies, most of the people have a biased opinion when it comes to people returning from abroad.
now forget how I am when it comes to relationships ... in my opinion human emotions are more or less the same everywhere. it doesn't become suddenly easy to impress an american girl and nor do every girl just fall flat for Indian men :) its purely personal. nobody is God here :)
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ik karai ku akkarai pachai!!.. ;-)....namma ooru ponnunga arumai...america pona than pasangaluku puriyidho ennomo??...enda ambi..sollarathu seriya?
i dont know what really those ppl think...do they analyze and say something or summa edho pesanam nu olararangala nu....summa edho pesanum nu olaranga nu me thinking.....
u r right.. its the movies that has created such a notion. I too heard such comments from many.
Hi Saranyan, here after a realllly long time!! Couldn't agree more with what you say. It really isn't easy for an Indian to fall for an American or vice versa. (there are exceptions..) But, atleast in my case, it can't!! Oh btw, I missed the most important point - Congratulations!! :)
Kate, karen....Ur "Imagination" is running around K...Anyways im sure all those mamis/mamas would have had a fit if u had in fact married an american!
viv
Sorry no comments.. irundhaalum commentaren..
I think tying the concept of love to country or caste is a misconception that still survives in India. As hari said, "illaraikku akkarai pachai" feeling persists. Also Indian boys and girls going ot the US are perceived as weak hearted enough to go after some phirangee.
That said, one such kate or karen really happening is no big deal as long as its the love that drives the emotion and not the person's color or nationality.
So, Mrs.Saranyan's first name starts with K...
I read the previous post too yesterday and congrats on being half-way towards "kaal-kattu"
:-)
It's the movies that are to be blamed.
Check out the female characters that they potray in movies and soaps...if she has returned from US, then she has to have lose morals...
Very true.!
TMI causes all these problems. Dhadi vechavan ellam Tagore illai!
Anyways, I am glad you found yourselves to like each other with the blessings of your parents.!!
You're almost near the pre-interval part of your life. (1st half is getting over)! Long ways to go.! Good luck and God Bless.!
Our affection comes out of our heart & mind. For some people, heart rules .. they go for the girls whom they love, irrespective of the background. For some people, mind rules.. they go for the girls considering all family requirements.
Heart Vs Mind - Sujatha has penned nice dialogues in 'Ullam Ketukumae' on this line.
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